5 Brave Women Reveal What A Female Orgasm Really Feels Like
Admit it: You’ve always wanted to know.
Trying to explain what an orgasm feels like is tricky. While we can all agree it feels absolutely amazing and it’s something we would, ideally, like to feel on repeat forever, finding the actual words to describe the specific, detailed feeling of an orgasm leaves many of us, if not most of us, speechless.
Then there’s always the big question: Does it feel the same for everyone? Men and women alike? Well, considering women have twice as many nerves in their clitoris than men have in the head of their penis, it’s safe to assume that women are the ones really scoring big on the orgasm front.
We asked five women to give us the detailed skinny on what an orgasm feels like to them. Here’s what they had to say:
- A sneeze stuck in your nose.
“It’s hard to describe, but if pressed to do so I guess I’d have to say like you know when you have to sneeze, and no matter what you do it just stays at the end of your nose like all f*cking day, and then when you least expect it, you finally sneeze and it’s like every fiber of your body feels amazing? It’s like that. But in the vagina.” - A boiling pot of water.
“[It feels] like a rolling boil on the stove. Starts slow, there might be some loud noises that you confuse for the real thing, but once it starts boiling over, there’s no stopping it, and no question about what’s happening.” - A free fall.
“[It feels] like your vagina is being tossed off a cliff and free falls for a second before landing on a really bouncy trampoline!” - A prize.
“It’s a release, but like the best release in the world. Part of the fun is the build up right beforehand; you know it’s coming and want to reach that phenomenal ending, but you also want to drag it out and sort of tease yourself because even the build up feels good. Then finally you just can’t take it anymore so you come … and every ounce of your body feels numb and alive.
“Things are shaking, your heart’s racing, and I don’t know about everyone else, but my legs shake so hard that all I can do is laugh. It’s like I won a really great prize and all I can do is smile and be weirdly proud.”
- A skydive.
“For me, the build up feels like I’m on the edge of the world ready to skydive and my heart is pounding, because I’m not sure what’s next (you know, because sometimes you can lose your orgasm before it hits), but then it hits and the explosion just forces me to fall and feel weightless.
If you want to know how to make a woman orgasm fast during sex, this might be the most important article you ever read.
You’re about to learn the best sex positions to make female orgasms come faster than you probably ever thought possible.
Why does it take so long for some women to have an orgasm?
Contrary to what many men think, the reason she usually outlasts you in bed has nothing to do with your size or stamina. Rather, it’s because most guys have sex in positions that stimulate their own areas of sensitivity, not their woman’s.
If your woman is lying on her back, “the ceiling” inside her vagina is home to her “orgasm zones” — the parts of her that cause intense orgasms, like the g-spot and upper deep spot. If you thrust straight in and out of her (like most guys do), you’re not hitting these spots.
If you’ve got an upward curve or a thick penis, that’s great. You’ll stimulate her orgasm zones more than guys who don’t. But even then, you’ll only reach a tiny fraction of her orgasm-producing potential. When you use the thrusting motions and sex positions I’m about to show you, your tip plows into her O’zones, and this will make her orgasm much more intense and a lot faster!
The trick to explosive orgasmic thrusting is to thrust in and up. Imagine a park swing. You start low then swing forward and up, then back down and away. Stand up right now and move your hips in a swing motion. Don’t move your legs or stomach. Only move your hips and core, like a swing.
This is the motion you need to use if you want to make her come fast during sex. Another option is to use specific positions that make you hit the spot by default.
Here are the three best erotic sex positions to give a woman the most intense (and fast) orgasms of her life.
- The Missionary Magician Position
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The missionary position is one of the most popular sex positions. Some call it vanilla, but different variations can give women explosive orgasms. To give her a powerful g-spot orgasm in this classic position, you only need to make two simple tweaks:
First, put a pillow under her butt to tilt her pelvis. Next, throw her legs over your shoulders, then thrust straight back and forth and you’ll drive hard into her g-spot! If you can handle it without finishing too fast, rest both her legs on the same shoulder. She’ll feel tighter to you and you’ll feel massive to her!
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- Double Doggy Style Sex Position
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The classic doggy style position is a huge favorite for many men and women. Many women say it’s the best sex position for orgasms because it stimulates their “ceiling” (or in this position, their floor.)
Here’s how to take it to the next level and make it twice as orgasmic for her:
Have her lie flat on her stomach with a pillow under her pelvis. Again, the pillow creates a slight angle that’s going to make her g-spot an easy target for your soldier. (All those extra pillows she wanted on the bed are starting to look better and better aren’t they?)
Now, get on top of her and thrust straight down at a 90-degree angle. You’ll be plowing straight into her g-spot and making her feel crazy good! Hold her arms down by her sides to show sexual authority while you whisper some dirty words into her ear.
- The Lean Back Cowgirl Position
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Your woman wants to have an orgasm. Duh! So, when she gets on top during sex, she wants to show you exactly how to make it happen. But most guys are completely oblivious to this and end up pushing her orgasm further away by starting to thrust in a way that feels best to him.
When a woman gets on top and rides you the way that feels best to her, you notice that she doesn’t go straight up and down. Instead, she grinds you. It’s not intuitive to men, but that’s the type of motion that’s going to make her feel way better!
Since it’s not intuitive to us, we often hold her in place and start thrusting fast and hard from the bottom. It feels best for us, but if you want to make her orgasm, that’s not going to cut it.
Instead, let her grind you and pay attention to how she’s stimulating her g-spot and clitoris. If she’s laying in top of you and grinding, she’s trying to stimulate her clitoris against your penis. If she’s leaning back, she’s trying to make your tip rub against her g-spot.
